Ahead of the much-anticipated release of “Vedaa” on Independence Day, Bollywood star John Abraham has shared intimate details about his challenging childhood and the profound impact these experiences have had on his adult life. During the promotional tour for the film, the actor revealed how witnessing his parents’ financial struggles, and navigating a world of stark inequality, have significantly shaped his values and lifestyle.
As John conversed with YouTuber and podcaster Ranveer Allahbadia, he painted a picture of his humble beginnings, which starkly contrasted with the opulence that surrounded him. “I would like to say this on the record, my mom is 74 years old, and my father is 12 years older than her; he’s 86. To this day, they have just one small car, and they mostly travel by autos and buses. I don’t say this to create an impression, but I have middle-class values, and this is my biggest advantage,” he candidly shared.
Reflecting on a powerful childhood memory, John detailed an emotionally charged evening that highlighted his family’s financial plight. “I remember I was in class eight, and my dad came home from work. We were having dinner, and he said, ‘I don’t know how to put food on the table tomorrow’. He was very tense. His partner at his architecture firm had cheated him. I don’t know if I meant it as a joke, but I told him, ‘Dad, don’t worry. You see this face? I’ll sell it one day’. It wasn’t ego, it was manifestation.”
John’s upbringing was marred by the frustration of witnessing stark inequality. “I didn’t have any money. I saw my parents struggle a lot. The school I went to only had rich kids; their parents were industrialists and actors. I was an average student, but I was number one in sports. School was a great leveller, but the moment I graduated, I was hit by reality,” John reminisced. The situation cultivated a sense of discontent within the young John, as he would consistently see his classmates travel in high-end vehicles like Audis, Mercedes, and BMWs, while he relied on local trains.
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Yet, despite this frustration, John expressed gratitude for these early life lessons. “That created a frustration within me. But I’m glad I didn’t have what they had back then, because today, I feel pride for the upbringing my parents gave me. I learnt social work from my mother; if she has Rs 100, Rs 99 will go to charity. My dad told me, ‘Even if you’re dying of hunger, never be dishonest in life’. And that’s what I learned from him.”
These values have made a lasting impact on John and continue to guide his life and career. His parents, especially, have been pillars of strength and models of humility. John noted that their modesty has played a crucial role in keeping him grounded amidst the glitz and glamour of the film industry. “I think having middle-class values is my biggest advantage. It keeps me grounded and connects me to the real world,” he added.
The actor’s revelations create a narrative of resilience and determination. John’s journey from a financially strapped childhood to a successful career in Bollywood is not just a testament to his hard work but also to the strong moral foundation provided by his parents. This upbringing has instilled in him a deep respect for honesty and altruism, virtues that he continues to hold dear.
Acknowledging his parents’ sacrifices and teachings, John expressed that their experiences have been instrumental in shaping his worldview. “My mother, with whatever little she had, believed in giving. My father always stressed the importance of integrity. These are lessons that I carry with me every day,” he said.
As he gears up for the release of “Vedaa,” John Abraham’s reflections during the promotional events offer an inspiring look into how early life adversities can mold one’s character and outlook. His story underscores the idea that wealth and success are not merely defined by material possessions, but by the values and principles one upholds. Through his journey, John continues to exemplify the virtues of humility, hard work, and ethical living, making him not just a star on-screen, but a beacon of inspiration off-screen as well.
